filters...

Last week I had gone for a small chit chat with abha didi... but when we sit togather it always takes hours to finish... (and that's why i call her my 50 telly ammi..) and same happen that day... the adrak ki chai... with miyaoun (old cat) sitting under our chair.. sun all over us except on ou faces... different alw books spread over....that was a very pleasent day... we discussed thousand of things and discussed what ever we felt... i am shukrguzaar to have her in my life..

among thousand of things one of her statement i found very useful for my life and to make my relationships work happily ... she said that when ever we want to say something we should filter and filteration involves these questions

-- What i am going to say is it the truth..

-- Is it necessary to be told..

-- and am I sure that its not going to hurt the other person..

I know all the filters were YES but still I could not say it... and I look-forward for another chance.. for its not matter of just sharing but my life depends.

Ya Allah... I donno how many people read my blog and how many of them know me... but I don't care. As I know that I am equally important bandi of your and I know that you would take care of .. and you would bring the opportunity soon again.. i just missed.

Allahpaak I know you have the plan for my life... and that's all I need to know!