My todays fortune on orkut says "The course of true love never runs smooth".... and the book i am reading "the road less travelled" says the same.... its never is smooth..... the good thing is that its about TRUE love!!
TRUE LOVE......how easily we get wrong impression about love...., romance is romance not love..., initial attraction is just initial and that is also not love...., love is also not "falling in love" becz then after a while one comes out of it..., the moment one is awakend of ones individaulity the "falling-in-love-pahse" is over... Love is about the life when you come out of that "falling-in-love-pahse", ...... Hmm I think it majorly depends upon what kind of arguments one is having...,
How much the couple cares for each other even when they are out of "falling-in-love-pahse",
how much they understand each other when they are out of "faling-in-love-pahse", and
how much of ego they are able to shed when they are out of "falling-in-love-phase".....
..... and it is importnat that both should be looking forward for a long spritual journey (understanding one SELF to understand the SELF of the partner... becz we all share the same SELF) ...
TRUE LOVE......how easily we get wrong impression about love...., romance is romance not love..., initial attraction is just initial and that is also not love...., love is also not "falling in love" becz then after a while one comes out of it..., the moment one is awakend of ones individaulity the "falling-in-love-pahse" is over... Love is about the life when you come out of that "falling-in-love-pahse", ...... Hmm I think it majorly depends upon what kind of arguments one is having...,
How much the couple cares for each other even when they are out of "falling-in-love-pahse",
how much they understand each other when they are out of "faling-in-love-pahse", and
how much of ego they are able to shed when they are out of "falling-in-love-phase".....
..... and it is importnat that both should be looking forward for a long spritual journey (understanding one SELF to understand the SELF of the partner... becz we all share the same SELF) ...
...and space to grow.... not just help the other person grow, but also be ready to grow oneself, this could be achieved only once one admits that there is scope for the growth.!. and that scope is aaaalways there. Its the understanding of SELF which helps in realizing this scope.
If one loves onself then only he/she can love the other... and the entire world is lovable what we have to see is the journyey (intellectual and spritual both) they are going on.. the values they share, the principals they hold and most important the space they give and take from each other which makes it evarlsing.......!!
and both keep working on these things "every single moment" but then we can say for sure " that they lived happily everafter!!!!
If one loves onself then only he/she can love the other... and the entire world is lovable what we have to see is the journyey (intellectual and spritual both) they are going on.. the values they share, the principals they hold and most important the space they give and take from each other which makes it evarlsing.......!!
and both keep working on these things "every single moment" but then we can say for sure " that they lived happily everafter!!!!
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