hair cut!!

i was sitting in parlor today, had gone for pedicure, saw a lady sitting in hijab (hijab in parlor why?? excuse me we all are ladies here... y u covering yourself.. are we making you feel uncomfortable or u yourself feel naked without hijab even when ONLY ladies are around!! ) Any way i was waiting for my turn and before me she was asked to take a seat and asked what she wants to be done? she said here cut and was so shy uncovering her head and then comes out an average looking lady with an average kind of hair! beautician started observing her hair and from top to bottom and asked what kind of hair cut she is looking forward to! she said she does not want that any one to know that she got a hair cut, they should not come on face tey should not hang on shoulders as-well. OKKKEEEYYYYY!!! then what exactly should i do asked the beautician! she said my husband and my mother in law do not want me to cut my hair but i love cutting it sooo much so i want to get it done.. all started laughing and she totally embarrassed!! any ways beautician did a bit of trimming from here and there and then asked her to check it once, she was soo happy that it reminded me the advertizement of INDICA where a man's eyes are WIIIDEE open for looong!! suddenly a girl who probably was with her said oh it is looking to short and clearly visible that you got them cut!! and all her happiness was substituted by a shock and dismay.
i wish she could hav had that happiness for free and for long.. and she had no such restriction on such petty things. suggesting and advising is one thing and focing and passing orders is another hope all who are trapped in this misunderstanding get out and start respecting all around them.. I pray for that lady.. may all notice her hair cut and also praise it. it HER choice and liking and after all she is human too!!